As you may or may not have noticed, I haven’t been posting as often as I once did. That’s because I created this blog to see how many followers I could get and I would say this blog was a huge success.
Since then this blog no longer interests me and with this post (#100), I’m going to let the cat out of the bag so to speak.
Let me introduce myself, I’m nancy(lou)444.
Oh you don’t believe me? Here’s a view of the dash aka my other other dash:
This is the definition of a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Or in my case, that hated old bitch pretending to be a destieheller….
And doing a damn good job of it.
Something the “wincest” anons have never been able to pull off in all my years on tumblr, because THEY don’t know how to stop being a destieheller.
I, on the other hand, with this blog was able to be a convincing destieheller. With age comes experience and know how.
I will probably delete this post in a day or so and post something more innocent in its place as a goodbye, because even though I had to bite my tongue a lot of times while posting here, I’m still proud of this blog and its accomplishments.
OH MY GOD. I’m almost laughing like a maniac here because girl if you’re actually the Nancy person, you definitely are obsessed with the thing you claim to hate so much. Probably in love. Switch sides!
I’m WHEEZING.
I mean whatever either this is a super weird hoax or Nancy has proved that even a half assed fake Destiel blog can get 5k+ followers because Destiel is so popular I CANNOT.
I’m just so confused because what is the point? Where is the purpose? What is this trying to prove except she managed to gain 5k followers alone just posting about destiel? Proving how popular and loved destiel is?
She talks about being better than “wincest anons” in some strange attempt to accuse destiel shippers of pretending to be hateful wincest shippers but even if that was a thing (which is doubtful) this whole attempt still serves no purpose? All it serves to prove is that this woman is sadly, strangely obsessed with destiel and destiel fans and has let her hatred for it and us consume her to a level of utter insanity.
It’s frankly so very sad and pitying it’s beyond belief. I hope she gets some help because wow.
Please Nancy just let everyone ship what they want and find love in the things they enjoy and stop the hateful ship war that you are obsessed with. It’s unhealthy. Please get help.
My dear Nancy, you sure have a lot of time on your hands…
her tag tho “nancy is an evil bitch” like
babe
honey
sweetie
i can promise you that no one is looking at this situation and thinking that. this isn’t evil it’s… i’ll put it this way:
on an evil scale from becky rosen to lucifer, you’re becky
I didn’t realize how terrible things had gotten for Sam fans, and Jared Padalecki in general.
I don’t like Sam all that much (though, kudos to the writers for making me agree, and laugh with a character I prefer much less to others), but this is insane. Sam (plus TFW) fans should be able to enjoy it without getting harassed by K and her cronies.
As usual your posts helped clear things up for me. Oh, and this is MxScarredFacade just so you know, and aren’t freaked out by the familiarity I’m expressing here 🙂
(hi btw! *waves*)
that’s the funny thing. if you actually show any love towards sam/jared, whether he’s your favorite or not, they’ll either talk amongst themselves about how you’re totally just faking it or just straight up call you a liar and that you actually hate him. i’ve had it to me WAY too many times. both on here and on twitter. it literally happened just two nights ago.
tenoko gets asks and curious cats with a variation of this same question: “why do you hate sam?”
my sam!girl friend that runs changing channels has it happened to her constantly, too.
i’m at the point that i’ve been involved in fandom, whether as a lurker or engaged, for so long that i’ve lost my will to give a flying fuck.
Urgh, it’s always the loudest group, no matter their size that can make things the hardest in a fandom unfortunately.
And that’s sad, and upsetting to me, because the charity aspect, and the way I’d heard the actors are with people, each other, (kind, funny, intelligent and willing to help so many people) and that this friendly, family bond extended to and amongst the fans is actually what drew me into wanting to participate in fandom in the first place just this year.
I don’t really blame people for being nervous wreck’s about it either. Some things you just don’t want to see, and that’s supposed to be respected, not thrown in your face (especially if it’s triggering!).
I’d heard about some things in passing before, but only a bit from FanFiction.net and Ao3 in the comments section. Didn’t really get into looking at the different… Faction’s? Oh, God this is so cliché… Until “fans” (who I now know were Destiel, and Misha hating jerks) jumped my first ever Supernatural post, going on about how “Destiel is heterosexual erasure” and “Destihellers push their agenda in people’s faces”.
I don’t think they actually expected me to research, because I figured out how full of kaka they were with just a google search. It’s what actually lead me to start searching for, well, to put it rather bluntly, people who weren’t such whillywarmers and actually decent enough to have a conversation about Supernatural. And voilà! Found them. And they’re Destiel shippers.
But I’m sure there’s a solution to this issue, it just requires perseverance in the face of stupidity.
(Also, now I’m going to be on the lookout for scared viewers and defend them with Hellfire).
[…] it just requires perseverance in the face of stupidity.
yes exactly! and that’s the hard part. it was hard to let go of my hesitance to blog and tweet about sam. it’s hard letting go of that.
and now look at my u/ns for here and twitter!
we need to just collectively take back the bro bond and sam and tell them “you know what? i think we will post about these things we love and not be scared of you, tyvm.”
we have to start somewhere tho. you see a broment in s14 that really tugged your heart strings? talk about it! a sam sl really got you excited for more? tweet about it! let others know that it’s okay. they don’t have to hide away anymore.
I didn’t realize how terrible things had gotten for Sam fans, and Jared Padalecki in general.
I don’t like Sam all that much (though, kudos to the writers for making me agree, and laugh with a character I prefer much less to others), but this is insane. Sam (plus TFW) fans should be able to enjoy it without getting harassed by K and her cronies.
As usual your posts helped clear things up for me. Oh, and this is MxScarredFacade just so you know, and aren’t freaked out by the familiarity I’m expressing here 🙂
(hi btw! *waves*)
that’s the funny thing. if you actually show any love towards sam/jared, whether he’s your favorite or not, they’ll either talk amongst themselves about how you’re totally just faking it or just straight up call you a liar and that you actually hate him. i’ve had it to me WAY too many times. both on here and on twitter. it literally happened just two nights ago.
tenoko gets asks and curious cats with a variation of this same question: “why do you hate sam?”
my sam!girl friend that runs changing channels has it happened to her constantly, too.
i’m at the point that i’ve been involved in fandom, whether as a lurker or engaged, for so long that i’ve lost my will to give a flying fuck.
hey this got long again, sorry
but as i mentioned in a reblog of this post, others are still nervous to enjoy sam, enjoy jared, even want and enjoy good things about the bro bond because these good things get soiled and tainted by k and co. and i and another friend spent all day the other trying to coax them out of hiding and assure them it’s ok to enjoy and want these things and to not let these assholes ruin it.
they’re not even a whole percentage point of the fandom and somehow they managed to rewire the thinking of 99% of the fandom because people don’t want to be associated with hate, delusions, and triggering ships.
i wish i could just tell people to give bronlies the middle finger and do what they want anyway and they just do it, but that’s not how it works. it’s like a pavlovian response now. you see bro content, j2 content, solo jared content, and you immediately recoil. it’s become safer to follow certain types of shippers and tfw fans because at least you know for sure that chances are highly in your favor that they’re not hateful/gross/deluded assholes.
This. All of this. I love Jared and Sam, with all my heart, I really do. But I’ve never met anyone in the Castiel / destiel fandom that hated Jared or Sam. It just makes me sad that I can’t say the same the other way around.
Jared deserves better than what his fandom has become.
I can’t help but think that if a socially awkward (tho attractive) tree-topper is getting a person’s knickers in that much of a twist, maybe it’s time for that person to turn off the electronics, go outside, and remember that Supernatural isn’t real.
Seriously though. I’m comparatively new to both the fandom and Tumblr and I can’t figure out what the hell the point of hating Cas that much could possibly be…or how anyone could justify transferring dislike of a fictional character or plot into actual, real hatred of actual, real people. How does that even happen??
That’s just it. Their reality line is blurred. This is largely the same club that has convinced themselves that J2 are in a PR coverup for now-14-years. Most initial tinhats gave up and moved on after the first, or failing that, the second kid. But no, they continue to build grander and grander convoluded stories on already previously shattered premises they sweep under the rug, and further and further fail to differentiate the line of show-vs-reality the deeper the fall into Wonderland goes.
Under the cut will be a bunch of stuff discussing this on like, an actual psychology level.
that last part about sam content? that’s important too. “it feels like putting blogs through federal background checks” IT DOES IT VERY MUCH DOES. (sorry for the font change but man) i love sam, i love jared, but it’s so damn hard to make and find solo content for him that isn’t soiled or jumped on by that lot.
on top of that, it seems to be affecting jared and how he views sam’s endgame. only once in the past few years have i heard him actually talk about sam having a LIVING future (let me know if there’s more because i love to hear him have some positivity about sam)
more after the cut because this is getting long
and it’s not just sam that gets ruined, either. it’s his bond with dean. two essential parts of the show get ruined for people to enjoy because they know all too well how people like kelios can take the sweetest, emotional, and most innocuous thing and morph it into a monster.
a friend of mine yesterday talked about how she wants dean to say “i love you” to sam and other tfw fans were like “but they’ll take it and twist it and i don’t want that.”
these people have taken something as wonderful and quite frankly normal and uncontroversial as siblings telling each other “i love you” and made people in this fandom be scared of that; be scared of wanting that. i spent all day calmly coaxing people into letting themselves enjoy sam and dean like they want. it was like talking scared abused animals out of hiding. it was sad.
tl;dr: their death grip on sam, on the bro bond, is affecting the rest of the fandom psychology and as a result jared too.
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