The real reason that people dont like Johnathan Van Ness’ personality on Queer Eye is not because they find that “type” of personality “annoying”, but it’s deep-rooted homophobic thoughts of being “too much” when you’re a flamboyant gay man and that’s unappealing both to straight people and to gay guys who refuse genuine femininity send tweet
“i can’t do simple hygiene bc im depressed”
that’s easy babe! just do simple hygiene
Y’all always have to wallow in your misery instead of considering maybe, just maybe, the encouragement people like this give is just telling people to do one, easy thing instead of worrying about a whole routine. Can’t make yourself shower? That’s fine, just brush your teeth. Don’t have the energy to do your hair? Okay, just brush your teeth.
Making 1 small change that can start improving your mood leads to other small changes. When I couldn’t make myself shower I would make sure I changed underwear every day. And then I started using baby wipes to keep myself fresh. And then I worked my way back to trying to take showers every day. My record might not be perfect but I’m getting better.
It’s really unhealthy to keep the mindset that anyone who isn’t miserable and suffering under their mental illness or emotional problems doesn’t know what they’re talking about. Maybe they’ve just grown to learn how to love and care for themselves in spite of what they’re going through.
Yeahhhh I don’t trust that someone saying “we all get depressed” truly knows what they’re talking about
These things aren’t always possible– no, not even something as simple as dental care.
It isn’t encouraging to tell someone to do something they literally can’t do.
ok so “we all get depressed” is a fair criticism
HOWEVER, my own therapist, ya know, a PROFESSIONAL, has said things like this. why? because it’s TRUE.
YES, it’s hard. literally everyone that has more than “YAASSS” in the comments on this post have said that. i myself have had problems doing small things sometimes. but you know what? doing something as small as eating or drinking or brushing your teeth leads the way to doing other things. one small thing can actually make you feel more yourself. it’s literal basic self-care.
i seriously can’t with y’all on this site. he’s giving great advice and y’all throwing him under the bus because “NOT EVERYONE CAN DO THAT DUMBASS”
i woke up to a tagged post from our fave troll diane. tbf, i hadn’t directly engaged her and had been trying not to, but i was half-asleep and on tumblr and was laughing at her in replies on posts that i had notifs on from the last time i said something to her (i’m too lazy to turn that function off apparently lol also don’t sleep and tumble)
oh no. whatever will i do guys? i’m sooooo huuuurt by that buuuuurn. i’ll never recover. and how dare she include caps of things i said that aren’t hateful??? i’m just so eVoL
and diane you said
so i did keep laughing but apparently following your instructions was the wrong thing to do 😦
i didn’t include her url (or the one she’s replying to) because i’d rather not give her more traffic (and you’ll eventually run into her anyway)
but let this be a lesson, kids: don’t worry about what people like diane say about you. they aren’t worth your energy or time. people that know you will know what you’re actually about.
She’s having a go at everybody lately. Shippers, nonshippers, everybody. Are you not a raging douchebag? If you’ve blipped on her radar, that’s enough to be a target. The ramblings are all as incoherent as the one before it and it’s really not worth anybody’s time. It’s like 40% insults, 40% blatant phobic shit (like dismissing nonbinary/non-cis people out of hand and accusing them of just being women pretending) and 20% bad math.
Considering Kelios is married to a trans woman, I have to wonder why she magically hasn’t voiced any discontent against Diane’s methods.
Hum.
let’s not forget her outing someone and her catch phrase that includes slurs and triggering language. a real peach, that one
it’s honestly at this point concerning. like i’m legit concerned for her. she needs help.
lolwut
i woke up to a tagged post from our fave troll diane. tbf, i hadn’t directly engaged her and had been trying not to, but i was half-asleep and on tumblr and was laughing at her in replies on posts that i had notifs on from the last time i said something to her (i’m too lazy to turn that function off apparently lol also don’t sleep and tumble)
oh no. whatever will i do guys? i’m sooooo huuuurt by that buuuuurn. i’ll never recover. and how dare she include caps of things i said that aren’t hateful??? i’m just so eVoL
and diane you said
so i did keep laughing but apparently following your instructions was the wrong thing to do 😦
i didn’t include her url (or the one she’s replying to) because i’d rather not give her more traffic (and you’ll eventually run into her anyway)
but let this be a lesson, kids: don’t worry about what people like diane say about you. they aren’t worth your energy or time. people that know you will know what you’re actually about.
“i can’t do simple hygiene bc im depressed”
that’s easy babe! just do simple hygiene
Y’all always have to wallow in your misery instead of considering maybe, just maybe, the encouragement people like this give is just telling people to do one, easy thing instead of worrying about a whole routine. Can’t make yourself shower? That’s fine, just brush your teeth. Don’t have the energy to do your hair? Okay, just brush your teeth.
Making 1 small change that can start improving your mood leads to other small changes. When I couldn’t make myself shower I would make sure I changed underwear every day. And then I started using baby wipes to keep myself fresh. And then I worked my way back to trying to take showers every day. My record might not be perfect but I’m getting better.
It’s really unhealthy to keep the mindset that anyone who isn’t miserable and suffering under their mental illness or emotional problems doesn’t know what they’re talking about. Maybe they’ve just grown to learn how to love and care for themselves in spite of what they’re going through.
also his advice is sound. when i can’t do things like shower or clean my apartment, i do one small thing that leads to making me do other small things to help me feel more myself again
or someone just forgot to make a heart tail lol. STILL CUTE :V
this is the part in the episode where all the female pikachus are off greeting ash’s. all the pikachus in the background are males including these two lil guys
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Gay Pikachus
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