dotthings:

BTW, the anti-destiel fans responding to @sassycaslovesdean by sending hate and yelling that destiel shippers are “everything that is wrong with the fandom” are everything wrong with the fandom. While other Destiel shippers are responding politely with a different pov, btw. Antis can generalize all they want but I’m seeing so many Destiel fans saying “no wait, Sam isn’t any less Jack’s dad” and offering reasonable meta as a response. 

The OP was giving an opinion not hating on anyone, and relevant discussion is coming from it. The anti-destiel fans are attacking the OP with insults, generalizations, and character hate while the OP’s fellow destiel shippers are holding reasonable character discussion. It’s bad meta and knee-jerk attacking and grudgewanking not discussion.

Below the cut a sampling of the derailing and pointless negativity, fan bashing, and anti-ing from the anti-destiels, which I’m addressing here instead of responding directly because a) I don’t feel like talking to them they’re so unreasonable and b) so I don’t mess up sassycas’s notifications with fighting:

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man, i thought i got testy with op. it’s nothing compared to the others in their replies. EESH.

and i’m sad to see one of them being someone who nicely asked if they could use a gif of mine. another person who uses my content, but hates a part of my fandom joys. :/

So, I made the mistake of actually looking at a J2 tinhat/anti/w*ncest blog because I still have a hard time wrapping my head around that stuff and now I’m mildly detached from reality. I get not wanting to ship something, especially rps, but denying that Jensen (or Jared!) is anything other than head over heels for his wife and fiercely devoted to their family is just mind boggling to me. At least the Cockles dumpster is mostly just as enthralled by their marriage as the chemistry between J/M.

tenoko1:

Oh ouch, no, honey, don’t go into the fire pit. Madness, chaos, denial, and hatred in the name of “love” are their mantra. Just stay in this lane that celebrates the cast, their families, friendships, and characters.

that side is called the dark side for a reason

i once spent a few hours over there and it felt like a dementor had sucked out all my joy and happiness

postmodernmulticoloredcloak:

Hey, Dad. It’s Sam. Uh… you probably won’t even get this, but, uh… it’s Dean. He’s sick, and, uh… the doctors say there’s nothing they can do. Um… but, uh, they don’t know the things we know, right? So, don’t worry, ‘cause I’m, uh… gonna do whatever it takes to get him better. Alright… just wanted you to know.

Call you? Are you kidding me? Dad, I called you from Lawrence, all right? Sam called you when I was dying! I mean, getting you on the phone? I got a better chance of winning the lottery.

I guess my point is that… if I don’t make it… the stuff I’d miss… it wouldn’t be things like Tahiti. Or the Taj Mahal. I’d miss more time with you. I’m getting that life isn’t all these big, amazing moments. It’s time together that matters. Like this.
Well, who’d have thought hanging out with me would make you sentimental?
I’ve had a good life, Dean.

:)))