Now the Q is,, is this nancy thing real or a hoax ;)

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I honestly don’t know. :p Either way, I guess it’s insane to put this amount of time and energy into something that you don’t care about, or even hate. Like, we all have things in this fandom and about this show that we dislike, and we might every now and then post something and go on a rant about it to let it all out, but to put that much time into negativity and hate, that’s a whoooole other level of insane. ^^” 

Really though, as I’ve always said; we need to keep in mind that a lot of young, inexperienced people have access to the interweb these days. And in a fandom this big, they might post things that are inconsiderate and rude, especially according to people who disagree with their statements (statements that are not always that delicate, because they’re kids). And I’m not saying that it’s okay, but you have to consider that a 13 year old that falls into a fandom might not consider tagging, or how tumblr works in general when expressing their enthusiasm for the first time. 

Yet someone like Nancy is roughly the age of my mom and dad, and hey, I think you’re never too old for tumblr, or too old for fandom, but you should be old enough to realize that you can live and let live in Fictional Wonderland, and that it’s best to focus and put your energy into the things that you love, rather than the ones you hate. 

The ‘destiheller’ (or however you spell it) thing, is sort of a witch hunt, going after whatever random Destiel account in this fandom does anything they consider harmful, even if these shippers are often new to the fandom, new to the ship, or very young. (And have like 20 followers, but hey, a screenshot is a screenshot, amiright?)

I’ve been in this fandom for 4 years. I know all of the biggest shippers and accounts on tumblr that have a lot of influence with their Destiel posts. 95% of them are not like that, not at all. They post Destiel positive things, meta, crack posts, fanfiction, but most of them do not even touch w*ncest or other ships with a 10 foot pole.

So I’d say, if you always focus on the thing you hate rather than the thing you love, take a breath, love yourself, and go ahead spending that time on something that you do enjoy. It’s not that hard, and you might end up feeling better? :p 

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Focus on positivity, this negative hate wank is really scary tbh. @intelligentshipper spoke yesterday about the psychology of hate blogging, neuroplasticity and how it creates a cycle where you cannot function or escape without medical / psychological help.

Regardless of the pathetic ridiculousness of it all I’m really worried by the fact that she posed as an underage blogger to interact with other underage bloggers and then also posted nsfw content.

This is unhinged and verging on not just immoral but illegal and extremely worrisome.